Tuesday, 4 August 2015

Pondicherry Trip




Our trip to Pondicherry (fondly called Pondy by many) was a surprise gift for our wedding anniversary by our dear ones. 

At the airport, waiting to catch the flight to Chennai, we saw many ladies in gorgeous sarees and jewels, obviously dressed to kill to reach some function hall from the Chennai airport itself. I wondered if the lady standing alone, bejeweled, flowers in her hair, and all the trappings of a newly wed, was the bride. How cruel to leave a lady (in all her finery) to bear the stares of all and sundry. 

Chennai was, as expected, humid. We had to wait long for a taxi - till the driver with all his papers intact (we would be out of Tamil Nadu) was assigned to us. Dressed in white, he turned out to be a colourful personality. When we asked him how many hours it would take to reach Pondy, he nonchalantly said 'If we go normal it'll be 3 hours otherwise 4 - 4.5 hours'. So his normal was our abnormal - rash and speedy! We said 'Normal', and relieved, he showed his motoring skills in all their splendour. He used both lanes without any partiality weaving in and out with elan, overtaking every vehicle in his path. But yes, we were in Pondy in 3 hours.

Our hotel was a majestic sight - a colonial building converted for tourists. It boasted a typical French (quarter) architecture. A walk, later in the evening, through the streets of the French quarter was interesting. we saw old colonial houses with their regulation balconies and arched gates probably leading to beautiful gardens. We were told there were still a large number of French families residing there. Their houses are painted yellow to distinguish them from Ashram houses which were grey. The hotel was a pebble's throw from the sea, so a walk along the beach was almost a 'given'. Before 6PM the breeze can be heavy and hot. Later, walking on the wide promenade can be a pleasure. People of all ages - babies to grandpas - seemed to enjoy the freedom of walking without traffic woes (no traffic is allowed along the beach after 6PM) and it was as if Sunday was an 'enjoy yourself' day for the Pondians.


The much anticipated visit to Auroville was 'dampened' by the heat and the humidity. Our timing was hopelessly awry because the afternoon sun beat on us mercilessly. Going to 'Matru Mandir' (walking more than a kilometer in torturous weather conditions) was a test of strength, will power and stamina. We covered our heads with what little protection we had but we could actually feel the sweat travelling down our hair and down our spines. We were completely drenched in sweat by the time we reached the destined place.  



Kuppu who was actually reluctant to make the trek at first was the one who avidly went up to the Mandir. We couldn't go inside as we were not given a pass, so we stared at the dome from the outside. Kuppu collected quite a bit of information about the Mandir. We joked that Kuppu would get distinction ('1st in 1st' as our heroes in movies do) if there were a Matru Mandir exam while we, enjoying the little breeze that came our way would only get pass marks. We were all truly 'done in' by this time, but fortunately could get back to the starting point in a bus. We could empathize with a girl who was just coming as we were leaving. We heard her desperate cries  'Tissue, anyone? Water, anyone?'.


The Ganesha temple we visited was something unique and amazing. The temple walls had Ganesha replicas from all over the world - by name. The ceilings were colourfully painted with scenes from Ganesha's life. There was one never-before-seen sculpture of brotherly bonding - Ganesha and Karthikeyan, together, on the peacock. The sculptures all over the temple and the impassioned crowds made it an out of this world experience. 


We went to a chocolate shop, with an exotic name Zuka, which had butterflies stuck all over the ceiling. We were told they were all made of chocolate, we had never seen anything like this before. 


The Aurobindo Ashram demands absolute silence from visitors. As we made our way to the Samadhi we saw breathtakingly colourful flowers in pots to our left and right. Sadly, cameras were not allowed. Men and women were meditating in one part of the Ashram, and we also stood in silence for one brief moment. The Samadhi was also covered with flowers which were lovingly and constantly being watered and kept fresh. On our way out, when I enquired at the Ashram library if there were pictures of the flowers they lady in charge looked disgustedly at me as if I had committed a sacrilege - 'We only have pictures of Sri Aurobindo and the Mother' she said. 

We enjoyed the hotel food, local pizza (the spinach touch was good) and regular thalis at the crowded eateries - all without facing any gastric problems! 

June 6th has come and gone but the memories are here to stay. 


Leela's 80th Birthday

Memories are made of funny, droll moments – and moments were aplenty with Leela stepping into her 80s.


     We were all sitting casually in Anu’s tastefully done drawing room – each doing her (there was only one 'his' in the room) thing. Leela was glued to the TV as was her wont, Anu had eyes only for her ipad, Seetha was upping her news quotient and I was twiddling my thumbs. Our protagonist Jay was busy on his smart phone, answering self-scripted queries. Suddenly, in all earnestness, he looked up and asked 'Anu, what is my favorite color?' Did we all enjoy that – and was Jay discomfited. And Anu’s quizzical look 'you should know your favorite color' made the whole episode funnier.

The IPL matches brought out the athleticism in us. The room itself would turn into an arena of sorts. If Bangalore started the game on the wrong foot, Leela would sprint to her bedroom and take solace in whatever serial was airing. If Hyderabad began fumbling and crumbling, I’d just run – any direction was welcome!


The ever mounting, never-ending 'Hum Paanch' (Rukma Vilas sisters) photo sessions encountered opposition from the 'Hum Dono' (brothers in arms) who posed for quite a few pictures just to get "even" – but that would never happen because we would always be "odd".

Nikhil, Vidya's Prince of Wales, greeted his grandma first all the  way from USA but his face was lost in the indistinctness of the screen and his voice was lost in an audio glitch. We were still sympathizing with his 'love's labor lost' when Akshay made up for it by his studied intonation of Kannada in american accent – he was endearingly hilarious

'Haider' (based on Hamlet) became a 'To see or not to see' experience. All of us had gathered to watch it for the 1st or 2nd or 3rd time. But the DVD seemed to have a mind of its own. Everyone pitched in with instructions, remedial measures and indulged in pressing of knobs followed by a roomful of sighs. Finally after all the hits, misses, the screen came alive (or should I say dead because of the Shakespearean bodies strewn all over). We got involved in the proceedings but the DVD had the last word. It went blank. We just couldn't see the final scene.

Leela was sifting through the congratulatory cards when she chanced upon one from her heartthrob Ranveer Singh. The uncrossed stamp in the envelop should have given the game away – but Leela was in a trance and Vidya insisted the cover had been 'handed' over to her by Ranveer's friend. One should have seen Leela blush a delectable pink as she read his message courtesy our fertile imagination! I guess she knew she'd been had – but I also think that card made her day. Leela has preserved the card – a keepsake!

The umpteen number of visits to the vegetable and fruit markets, snack centers, dry cleaners, malls – it was enjoyable to be part of this 'outgoing' band of women who had ample time on their hands despite the absence of watches.

Leela felt absolutely embarrassed to have her feet washed by her lovely daughters – part of the Puja ritual. Her feeble protest was quickly squashed but she was absolutely awkward when pushed into the limelight like this, knowing that 1000's of eyes were on her, watching the washing! After Ranveer's card this was the second occasion when she turned 'pink'.

Calling Senthil - the man friday - on all days and at any time was also a ritual of sorts. Every time the meter tipped, our short, shorts clad stocky help would saunter in, pull the ladder, stand on the top rung, do the needful with the meter, and put things away until the next call - it seemed as if Senthil said 'let there be light' and there it was!


At Eagleton (the high end golf enclave) where we neither teed nor putted, we went visiting a relative's house. The Spanish villa style bungalow enthralled us. We went in, up the stairs, and wanting to enter the inviting balcony, I walked right into the glass door. Nose, specs, chin - all went into damage mode. Adding insult to injury, my slippers decided to fall apart. That really made my/me trip! 

Our piercing eyes spotted a small lizard in one of the 2 lifts. That gave Anu the jitters (not that I wanted to pet it) so we would always take the other lift where also we felt we saw the critter. The lizard must have had a rocking time going up and down 6 floors - we also rocked and swayed but due to an icky feeling.

One evening we were talking about the sartorial habits of one of our uncles and we were trying to outdo one another in praising him when a voice piped in. Someone in an 'I knew him well' tone ventured', 'woh hamesha dhobi ke kapde pehenthe the!' How we burst into peals of laughter imagining our uncle wearing ‘dhobi ke kapde’ rather than ‘istri ke kapde’. Kumar's guffaw was, of course, heard worldwide.

There would have been more memorable moments but alas! I had to make my 'movement' back home. However if you see me smile or see the twinkle in my eye you will know that I am reliving one of those moments.

Glossary:

Anu - Leela's beautiful daughter - belongs to US!!
Viday - Leela's younger lovely daughter - she also belongs to US!!
Jay - Anu's husband - loves to live in the US
Seetha - Leela's sister
Leela - The Aries lady of the house in 'Capricorn' apartments and the birthday baby at 80
Kumar - The chief guest at Leela's wedding. A fun loving cousin, came all the way from Hyderabad like I did.
I - Leela's sister. Also Seetha's sister.